Monday, April 2, 2012

So I'm a little crazy...

I just take off from time to time.  The only thing I have been solidly able to commit to lately is my new (4 mos new) beau, and school... and of course my little one, but that's a given.  I have been busting my ass and I graduate this summer with my AA and then go on to UCF where I will be working on my bachelors.  I feel so lame for being almost 30 and so behind on school.  I guess its excusable since it was delayed because of the military and a kiddo.  At least the military is paying for school.  So I am back.  If anyone is still around :)

I have had some interesting things like finally moving into my house and my mother getting remarried, my baby sister getting married. Other than that I have been boring as hell.  I haven't even had time to read more than one book for fun this year so far.  I have homework out the wazoo.  And on that note I need to get back to it.  Hope all is well with everyone.  I have missed all my blogger friends.
 My beautiful little sis


New Beau

Monday, October 31, 2011

Finally the long awaited DomCon post...

So I am back again.  I take longer breaks now I know.  I really should have gotten to my weekend in Atlanta when it was fresh in my mind, but oh well.  So the weekend in Atlanta DomCon started with me driving several hours to go get my dear friend Jessica Rabbit.  So I only spent half the trip alone...  The other half was spent with us laughing, BSing, and having a generally good time.  The whole way to Atlanta there were signs for strip clubs and massage parlors (like the kind that give you happy endings) and between those there were signs about God and Jesus.  Fun stuff.  Jess and I decided to stop at one of the adult stores off the highway.  We luckily picked probably one of the nicest stores that there is.  The Lions Den.  Really nice building not at all seedy (well comparatively with other porn shops) and just a generally good shop.  Picked up shave gel (system JO stuff) and then we were off.  Got into Atlanta pretty late so we didn't get into the convention portion that day, but we had plenty of time to get ready for the dungeon play party.

Yes... I know I look like a hooker

My first night in a dungeon and I was super excited.  I was there with my friend Sol and a few of his entourage from Cali so it was just like being back with my group.  The party took it to another level though.  It was so much to see and take in.  So many kinks.  I think I was having a kids first time at Disney moment.  I only did one scene that night with my friend Sol.  I did a full body suspension on my side.   It was so freeing to be tied up and hoisted in the air...  then I got to spin and generally play in the suspension.  It was so much fun.  I felt like a kid on a swing.  It was such a rush and the best high ever.  I spent the rest of the night relaxing and sitting and watching the other scenes that were going on around me.  I only took in probably half of what I saw though because I was floating so high.  I lost Jess halfway through the night and find her in the company of a very handsome man...  Just chatting guys :)

Got in about 3 that night I think maybe it was like 4...  cant remember.  I did not sleep that night though.  I love Sol dearly, but DAMN that man snores something awful.  I don't know how everyone else slept, but I was in the bathroom in the tub with blanket towels and pillows trying to drown out the sound.  Up at 9 the next day because there was no point in trying to actually sleep anymore and we had to get checked into the convention we got ready.  Just regular clothes since we were running around a hotel with other guests.  Some people had serious fetish wear, but they did a decent job of keeping it contained.  We walked around checked out the vendors and ran errands for Sol since we were there to help as well.  Attended part of a rope class until my stomach got the best of me and I had to eat.

Running errands

Hip harness in class

Our new friend Corwin
He has great latex and rubber outfits :)

Day ends I go and soak in the hot tub for a while and then we go back to the room to get ready for the next play party.  Jess and I went shopping to find her a super cute school girl outfit.  Bug her and make her post the pictures.  I went with a school girl skirt as well.




That night in the dungeon party I went a different route for a play scene that night.  I had been flogged before but never unclothed and definitely not in the middle of a dungeon.  I met a guy that was very skilled at it.  I took the dive and did a scene with him.  Me and my knicker and fishnets and nothing else leaned over a special bench and proceeded to get flogged.  It was so awesome.  It was more like a massage.  I know I'm weird, but really it was.  I was so relaxed I layed down on the bench and let him flog the hell out of my back an booty.  I flipped over for a little and let him use a different type of flogger on my chest.  I almost died laughing it tickled so bad.  He stopped after that and gave me a huge hug and we both thanked each other for the play.   He likes giving and I like receiving.  Its a win win.   That was all the play I did for the night.  I had the floaty feeling again.  I watched some whipping with a single tail being done and I got a foot rub from the wonderful Corwin...  He did suck on my big toe, but really I was getting massages and I didn't care at that point.   We close down the dungeon...  We literally stayed till last call there (not really last call because there isn't any drinking, but you know what I mean.)  Jess is with said friend again and he offers to give her a ride back to the hotel...  I and the rest of the entourage did the 3rd degree and then they took off and we got in the shuttle.  Another 4 am night.

I got to stay in another friends room that night which was awesome because there was no snoring.  Little Miss Rabbit did scare me a little, because she turned her phone off.  She was a good girl though for the most part aside from a spaking or two from her handsome friend.  She eventually got back to me though and finally made it to the room some time around 6.  We got up around 9 or 10.

Jess after a long night... Don't kill me :)

After we all showered and dressed...  Sunday was the chill day

Sunday was like a down slope from the craziness of the weekend.  People were leaving all day and almost everyone was back to normal clothes and getting back to normal life.  Jess and I along with another of the entourage Candy spent the day just relaxing.  It was a little bit of a sad day since I was leaving my Cali friends again, but I wouldn't have missed the weekend for the world.  We went out to eat at a soul food restaurant in Atlanta that was delish and then we came back to the hotel.  The rest of the entourage left, but Sol stayed behind.  We helped get everything together and helped another of his friends move things to her storage unit from the vendor area. 

We didn't leave till after 8 so it was a long drive at night.  Thank goodness I had Jess with me half the way.  We stopped at a lot of rest areas and goofed off.

Jessica wanted to feel the power...  Seriously it says feel the power on them

After dropping her off it was hard as hell to make the trip home, but I got caffeinated gum and a caffeine drink and took off for home after that.  It rained horribly through part of the ride home.  Thankfully I had my headset on and was talking to a friend the rest of the way home.  Got in about 3 and that concluded my crazy ass weekend at DomCon.

Hope you all enjoyed my pictures and sharing.  It was a fun trip and I had great company :)

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Off to Atlanta...

Well I have been a busy bee lately.  Had so much to do for my kiddos birthday party, and everything else that has been going on around here.  I have added to that by deciding on attending DomCon Atlanta this year and its this coming weekend.  It's a convention geared toward Doms and the industry (I know I am not one of those, but I'm going to be more of a volunteer).  Super last minute decision I know, but I really couldn't pass it up.  We shall see what trouble I get into... or who's rope I get into anyway.  I am going to see some Cali friends and help out Sol and the gang with whatever I can (Sol from my adventures in bondage over on B&B.)  I have no clue what im going to wear and its going to be a long ass drive (upwards of 6 hrs), but I am so looking forward to it.  I am also stopping and picking up Jessica Rabbit on the way.  Hopefully I can talk her into getting tied up.  I think she would make a great rope bunny.  So I will be off on an adventure of corruption and mischief :)

Wish me luck guys


Tuesday, September 20, 2011

The road to a smaller ass...

You all have seen my pictures.  I'm cute, but I am in no way a skinny girl.  I have fat curves.  I have people tell me I am beautiful all the time.  I know I am not a truly fat person.  I just have not been doing all that I can to keep myself the skinny person that I used to be.  I actually used to be very small.  Even after my son was born I got back down to around my normal weight.  Then a ton of things seemed to come and knock me down and I didn't take care of myself as best as possible. I worked out sporadically and have always had a tendency to stress eat. All real issues that I fought against and now I am on the road back up the hill.

Moving back home I have had nothing to do and I got fed up with myself.  My father had P90X and never got past day 2.  I told him that I would take it and I would work out... Don't think he actually believed me or anyone else for that matter.



I have since proved them all wrong and have gotten 30 days in so far and still going.  This is actually a big accomplishment for me.  Even when I used to work out it was 3 days a week at most and I used to drink and smoke cigarettes.  Not very healthy at all.  Now I am actively not trying to stress eat.  I have to keep fruit around the house or I am screwed basically.  I love eating.  Always have always will.  Ill eat healthy if I have it and its been a struggle to stick to that since I am living with others now and there is junk food around.  I have only lost 5 lbs, but its a start.  Its much easier to do the exercises now though and that is a big deal for me.  I don't really care if i get skinny like i used to be again.  I like having boobs and those don't stick around when I am really skinny.  The junk in my trunk is most likely just going to get more firm.  My family isn't known for small rear ends.  I will keep everyone posted on my progress when I hit day 60.

BTW this workout is kick your ass hard...I really hate the guy that does the videos, but i think it makes it easier for me if I am imagining him dying a fiery death while I'm working out :)

Hope you all are doing well.



Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Do you know what its like to have to hide booze from you parents???

So I am rooming with my mother and her new hubby (just got married last weekend so happy for her) for a while till I can get my own house.  This situation is okay, but still pretty stressful.  Its way cheaper to split bills than rent and build up a down payment for a house.  Seriously though...I buy good booze.  I spend quite a bit on good wine and beer.  My mother drinks some shitty ass beer and the wine could be boxed and cost 2 dollars and she wouldn't really give a shit.  She also pretty much funnels it down her throat when she drinks.  It really isn't pretty.  She gets wasted.  Since my beer and wine happens to occupy the same space as hers she seriously helps herself and drinks it all in one damn sitting.  Then too add insult to injury she replaces it with Miller light...WTF.  At least replace it with the same thing.  I can not believe that I had to have a talk about replacing my booze.  Then after that talk she does the same damn thing again.  So needless to say I bought a door knob for my room with a lock and I am getting a mini fridge.  I don't drink a lot and when I want something I want it to be there where I put it after I bought it.  I'm going to be locking my shit up from now on.